Question: What do you think about it?
There is this guy. He is in most of my university classes. I have been good friends with him for about six years now. We are both 21 (he is three months older then me) and we get along great. We talk with each other everyday, walk home together (he lives a few streets away from me), we talk with each other on the phone quite often, and meet up after uni every second day. He always chooses to hang out with me over other people, always defend me if someone says something behind my back, and he has taken injury so I don't have to a couple of times ( for example, someone got annoyed at uni and threw a brick at me because I was the closest person to them, and he jumped in front of it and broke his arm to protect me). I will also choose to hangout with him over others, and always get happy when I see him, and will help him with anything if he asks for it.
Recently, while we were hanging out, we were mucking around, it begun to rain. We began rushing home and after he playfully teased me, I light heatedly pushed him, not meaning to make him fall over, but because I swerved in his direction to push him, I got in his way and he fell into some mud. Luckily he just brushed this off and laughed, although he was covered in mud.
It stopped raining and we decided to go to the park we usually hang out at, although we decided to go back to his place first so he could change. When we got there, I waited in the living room and he told me he would be back in a few. I waited, and I was really angry. I was really angry at myself for pushing him into the mud. Then it dawned on me, I have strong feelings for him.
I then had to use the toilet, so I called out to him to ask him if I could. When he came out, he was in clean jeans, but he had no shirt on. Seeing this solidified in my mind that I wanted to be with him. I don't know weather he likes ME though, and I don't know how to ask him out. What should I do to find out weather he likes me, and how should I ask him out? Im afraid of ruining the friend ship we already have if it doesn't work out.
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If he has not tried any move on you at all within the first month, then he is not into you.
U should definitly go out. So much chemistry. I sooo hope that u guys work out. Tell him how u feel and if he doesnt feel the same, say u still want to b friends.
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Wow! Lucky girl- what are you waiting for ? Just tell him you are in love with him and I am 100% sure that he loves you to death already and is probably just afraid like you of ruining the friendship.
If you are afraid to tell him in person, try chat or call him.
Your story sounded straight out a movie to me and I would be so happy for you, once it works out!
Go, get him !! Don't forget to update us, after you two are a couple. Good luck! :)
yeah jump on this quick (not literally lol hold off on that) by the way who the HELL throws a brick at someone!?!?! where do you live?
just let it happen on its own. If he is really attracted to you then he will eventually make a move. Most guys dont want girls being the one to ask them out. If your chemistry is this good then sparks will fly between you. have fun.
You guys have chemistry. Omg go out with him!!!!
def go out with him, good connection :)
go out with him!!!!! :))))
tell him ur feeling! i think he has the same feeling with u! :)
He took a brick for you??
You two have a great chemistry, he chooses you over friends, and broke his arm for you. He is 100% in love with you. Take him before someone else does, and youll regret it. Boy what I would do to be in your position, you got a great guy who is in love with you and don't even know it! You got to tell us if you two get together :)
Good Luck :D!
If I were in your situation I would wait for the guy to ask me out. I've been told over and over and over that if a guy likes you enough, and doesn't want to lose you he will try to be with you and he will ask you to be his girlfriend. He doesn't sound shy at all, coming out without a shirt on and being awfully flirtatious, so the fact that he hasn't asked you out is not because he is shy, but maybe he isn't ready. Just give him a little more time, but DO NOT ask him out. Guys love what they have to chase so, let him chase you. Don't be the annoying girl he talks crap about to his friends like you're a creepy stalker.
let your feelings be known, if he's putting you in front of his friends, and him in front of a brick then yes, he obvs likes you.... o he came out without a shirt on? it takes like 2 seconds to put a top on.. he did it on purpose!!
say he's quite good looking, nice personality an all those other desirable characteristics, and maybe ask why he doesn't have a girl already.. go from there, you already have the chemistry to make things happen!!