Question: PLEASE HELP!!! Should I text her right now or not?
I really like this girl. We recently became very close. I'm the one who initiates the texts and usually she responds right away. The other day I didn't text her, then she texted me first the next day.
Anyway, I'm thinking of texting her right now to tell her to have a great day. I usually don't do this. But I'm also thinking of not texting her for a day or two to see how she reacts to it. I don't want her to think I don't care about her but I also kind of want to be a challenge.
So should I text her now or not?
You should text her she might get a little mad
don't do that especially if you arne't dating
if you are dating you can test her...
but since you aren't she will get the message that she is just another friend
Text her now. The guy should always be the one to initiate things, and you have it backwards when you say you want to be a challenge. The girl should always be the challenge, not the guy... the guy is supposed to pursue the girl, not the other way around. Guys don't play hard-to-get, girls do... it turns me off when guys think girls should be chasing them because it shows the guy isn't manly and courageous. So you have to initiate things.
Dont text for a day or two.. You might want to get sure of the otherside as well.. so sit back and observe.. then you can continue
I have the same problem. Im a girl, if I were u I would text her a simple good morning. It would prob put a smile on her face. I dont know why u would want to wait to text her for a few days. The guy I met is doing that to me and it makes me feel like he doesnt want me anymore.
Text her good morning, trust me me she will like it.
oh please some women, including myself, do not like men who pretend to be a 'challenge'. Besides that behavior is usually reserved for women. Man don't act that way! Women should not act that way either if u ask me. I never pretend to be a "challenge". If I am interested I show it. And I can text somebody whenever I feel like it instead of waiting to make him text me first and all these stupid mind- controlling tricks and games some idiotic people (women? men? who knows...) invented long time ago. I play no tricks and I expect my man to be the same towards me too.
Now if your girl is the type that plays tricks (making you wait etc) she may like that you don't answer her the same day BUT if she is like me...playing the waiting game/"challenge" etc will definitely make her BORED, angry at your immaturity, and willing to find somebody else who textes her without second thoughts when he feels like it...and then pretty soon she will dump you.
So you have to know which type of girl you are after. Is she the 'challenge" type or not? Then you'll know if you have to wait until u text her or not. It all depends on her, not you. If she likes men who play the "hard- to- get' type make her wait. If she is like me and simply likes HONEST and straightforward men who are not afraid to show their feelings, then she will lose both respect and interest in you pretty fast if you try to play games with her mind.