Question: Losing virginity.....?
Okay so I'm almost 19 and still a virgin (I know, sad right?) and also never kissed or dated. I am very aware that there are certain ways of solving this without all the time-consuming relationship stuff, and I really want to start experiencing this huge part of life. Basically I'm sick of waiting when I know I probably will never end up romantically involved with anyone. But there's another part of me that wants to save that just in case (however unlikely) I meet that special person I can share that experience with. So what am I supposed to do? I want to lose my virginity, but I don't want to regret it either.
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Its not sad. Im 19 never dated and never kissed a boy before. I dont plan on having sex until after I am married. There is nothing wrong with dating and if someone teases you about it ignore them :3.
It's not sad. I'm 21 and still a virgin. Not because I didn't have the option to lose it, but I'm thinking that it'll be better to save myself for a guy I really care about. Not just throw it away on a random person. I've dated guys and went as far as you can without sex but I've never felt comfortable enough with any of them to do it. It's not stupid at all. I want to look back and remember my first time not regret it like most of my friends do because they thought it was a good idea to have sex in high school. Don't make a decision based on what people are doing around you. Everyone's different and you shouldn't change because it's the "cool" thing to do now.
lose it to someone you love. simple.
'Sad, right?' I don't see what's sad about it. Just 'cause some people make it a trend to lose their virginity early, it doesn't mean that those who haven't lost theirs and instead held onto their self-respect are sad. Hold on to your dignity.