Question: Lacking Sex Life Problems?
I'm 19 and only have gotten oral 3 times from 3 diff chicks. But never have actually penetrated, i really want to though. sometimes i worry about not performing well enough, not being good enough and stuff like that, so ive avoided alot of interaction because of that. everytime i see a girl i really like or is really cute my heart races a little and I am totally into her, sometimes i get hard sometimes my heart races with getting hard at all. I do masterbate alot, too much, i have since i was 16. It has caused me to be less social for sure, i felt confident, and alot hornier when i was playing sports full time and like never masterbated. I think I need to straighten up and stop masterbating so much, need to start playing sports full time like i used to, and maybe confidence and social Life, sex life will come back to me. its just masterbating has really got to me. I did it so much I changed from anything to get me off because i never had many interactions. from pantyhouse porn to milfs even to shemales. and sometimes diffrent things get me off, but none of it gets my hard beating like when i see really cute girls, that feeling to where you say to yourself i want to be with this girl, and you kind of visualize our futures together. one reason that coud be affected my sex drive, socialness a bit, like i said can be me not being athletic constantly like before, and masterbating too much. Plus i recently got diagnosed with narcolespy with cataplexy, sometime the 2 can get a little annoying, but its very mild compared to a lot of people so i'm lucky, but that manageable with meds. But is the best thing to do to..
1) Play Sports fulltime again
2) only masterbate once every few weeks now
3) get small naps when needed to feel energized & use corrrect meds for narcolepsy & cataplexy
4) push myself more
5)eat better foods with (libido)
6) to just all together stay away from porn
...then maybe everything will come back to me
thanks for your time
You're a dog and I can already see you becoming an asshole just for a little piece of ***
Well bro it is nothing to be ashamed of, the whole only gotten oral thing and still being a virgin. I'm about to turn 19 and I had sex for the first time last year. The first time you have sex, definitely wear a condom (and as much as you can after the first time) because I guarantee that you are probably only going to last anywhere from 30 second to 10 minutes. But it's nothing to be ashamed of. If you tell a girl it's your first time they will understand and a lot of them think it's cute. If anyone told you they lasted any longer than that they are lying to you. I would try to quit masturbating as much as you can because it takes away your drive to go out and get actual girls. and speaking from experience it definitely makes you a lot pickier when it comes to choosing girls. That whole anything to get you off thing was probably just a phase of your body being curious about what it likes. I personally can't even watch porn unless it's a girl by herself or with another girl. sorry to hear about your narcolespy and i hope things work out for you!
Sounds like you already know the answer to your question! :) Good luck.
I say 1,2,3, and 5. You sound like a handsome young man. I'm sure that girl probably likes you. Just control your erges however and you'll feel better and be better in no time!