Question: Im confused about this girl. Im not sure if she's telling me exactly how she feels. ?
Me and this girl been talking for a while and the only reason I started talking to her is because she show interest in me. But we hangout couple of time watch movies and cuddle. Few days ago she text me midnight and I was sleeping and never replied to her text. And the next morning I went to pick her up she started asking me what I was doing lastnight and why do I look so tired. we hung out a little and I dropped her off. She didn't call or text Me the whole day or the day after. few days later I text her she never replied. The next day I called her and she didn't answer instead she text me back saying Ill call you in a bit...but she never did. Few hours later I texeted her saying that I wanted to hangout with her and I miss her and she should call me cuz I wanted to hear her voice. Not to long after the text she called and we talked. The next day I pick her up bought her some food came back to my place. we put on a movie. While watching the movie I put my head on her lab and started feeling on her butt. She never told me to stop I guess she liked it.. during the movie one of her friends called her so she can dropped them off. When she came back we talked a little than she asked me to dropped her off...I asked if she wanted to hangout the next day she said she got things to do...she called me the next night and I told her exactly how I felt about and I ask her how she felt about me and her response was she thinks Im a nice guy that's all she said. I just assume when say Im a Nice guy is the only reason she been talking to me is,because Im a nice so I suggest me and her should still be friends even tho she dosent feel the same way I feel for her. But deep down I know she got a feeling for me...I don't if I should just remain on a friend level or should keep trying and see where the road take me. Im confuse I usually don't chase girls for this long.
Sounds like 3 things you can decide based on the fact you know her better than I. 1: She is a cycle girl...meaning she goes through cycles...this can differ from girl to girl but worse case is like this....*****-Single-Dates a Guy-Argues-Breaks UP-Talks to 3 other guys-Bitches-Single-Then starts it all over again. 2: She was on her period and her hormones didn't know to tell her if she liked you or hated you...if she didn't say stop to rubbing on her but 2 things she liked it or she didn't know how to tell you to stop. 3:She likes you and just sucks at relationships...when she said she thought you were a nice guy, well that's a general response..if a girl doesn't like you she will say something like else not so nice. Just remember even if she is a ***** she is a girl treat her nice never make her feel uncomfortable...try to kiss her softly on the cheek if she doesn't let you...just take a hint and move on unless she gives and explanation for it. I have talked to many of my friends that are girls about guys who rubbed up on them they didn't say anything at first they just kinda brushed them out of their lives. Here is my advice..send her a txt saying exactly this...."Hey i was just thinking about it and I'm sorry if I made you uncomfortable when we hung out the other day, i think I was moving a little to fast, so I was wandering if maybe we could go see a movie soon? :)? If she replies yes take her to a movie don't make a move on her that night..PS if she says yes she likes you. Good Luck :)
I just wasted 5 min of my life reading this...
But seriously, ive been in this situation. And it is a hard place to be. You need to stop telling yourself that deep down she feels the same way. Thats just ur heart screwing with ur head. You even said yourself thats shes not into you that way. By saying that your a nice guy, thats her way of politely rejecting you while trying to salvage the friendship. The question is are YOU ok with being just friends? If you are going to hold out for more with this girl then you need to walk away.
You have already gone out on a limb by telling her how you feel, which was very brave and commendable. So now the ball is in her court. I would say remain at the friend level for now. Give her a little space and if she misses your affections, she will come around. It goes with the old adage "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it will last forever. If not, then it was never meant to be." Good luck.
sounds like your just being used.
Or she loves your company but maybe your not her ideal guy to date.
Just stay the way you are for now.
You could always try not giving her your attention anymore.
stop calling and texting and hanging out
hopefully she starts to miss you and the attention.
and comes running backa haha i dunno dude
girls love to mindfuck guys ;)
from a girls perspective,,,ehhh i dont think she does. sorry if shes putting you off to the side like that..
when a girl likes a guy and he texts or calls she will step on legos to get to her phone lol.
when a girl also says "your a nice guy" sorry to say but she tried to reject u as sweetly as possible
If it is so wait and try to know what she has in her heart and mind about you.Do not hurry up and be careful. Try to impress her and win her heart if you really love her and want to make your gf.