Question: I am very embarassed. could my bf think im gross and finds me less attractive now?
i am always fully shaven or waxed down there. sex was good for me and my bf and he always insisted on a doggie, which i obliged once. it so happened i started to love it and he stopped. he would give reasons like that position makes his legs pain and all that. but i knew he is making up a reason.
dont think im stupid but when i was in my room, alone later, i did the same pose to look over in the mirror why he would not ant a doggie again. although i am unsure how much he could see of my back side, i noticed jus short hair around the anal. the skin was slightly dark too.. i think i know thats the reason why he used to deny to spare himself of the sight....
could he be secretly thinking im gross?? i never knew i had hair right near the anal all this while. about 2mm maybe and scarce, but visible..i never felt the hair down there even while bathing. how do i make up for that? could he have stopped feeling sexually attracted towards me?
please help im so embarassed....
p.s: he always insists we do it almost every alternate day, but i can make it just twice a week due to college. just that he never wants to give a doggie anymore.
tats just a natural anal, if u look at his its probably twices as fury unless hes a waxer of the ***, i dont think thats the issue, it might actually just hurt him in the leg area, but if u really feel strongly about the reason thats its the look, u can actually get waxed back there and get ur anal bleached :p\id really talk to him first though
If he was disgusted with you or anything of that nature he wouldnt have sex with you at all and hair isn't that big a deal as long as you don't have a full on unkept bush( which you don't) it just sounds like he lost interest in the position. Talk to him about how you really like that position
Show him this question.
As embarrassing as it maybe, you need to confront him about it. The best way to go about theses things is to be totally confident in yourself and have a chat to him. It very well could be leg pain or it could be that he finds the hair unpleasant, either way talking to him will help.