Question: I know it's very long but please answer!!!!!!!!!?
I know this is long but: I've been in love with him ever since I met him. He's very cute, smart, and super funny. I didn't think I was in love with him at first, when he first moved in next to us and started going to my school, I had a little crush. But I eventually forgot about him, until a party I had on my mom's party bus and soon him, his little brother, my younger brother, and I became very best friends. I was pretty sure he liked me, he'd get jealous when I had boyfriends, even though he was in a serious relationship. They used to spend the night like every weekend. Him and I were really close, but not as close as him and my little brother. They are the BEST of friends. One night I woke up and he had his arm around me in our sleep. I wanted the moment to last forever. He's always hinting that he likes me, it's almost as if it's just another tease. Because I love him so much. Ive known him for two years now and we're always chasing and teasing each other. Everyone says we're going to get married someday. So on the last day of eighth grade I pulled him aside and told him "I think.....I'm in love with you" and ran away (which led to my boyfriend finding out and dumping me). Later that night, his brother and him were spending the night and him and I had an hour long talk. About absolutely everything. About how much I love him and everything. Exactly how I felt. He kind of friend zoned me. He thinks of me as a sister. He said we could probably never date. And my hope at the probably is what hurt the most. He referenced to when you're best friends with someone for a really long time.....you might just marry them someday. It seemed like everything was okay but I started crying in my room for about an hour. I'm pretty sure he couldn't hear me though. I wrote him a letter saying that I love him for who he is, not what he looks like, not for who people think he is. It was the nicest thing I've ever said to someone, and I meant it. It seems.....really awkward now. He's gone for a week, and it feels like it's been forever. It tortures me when I'm with him, and it tortures me when I'm without him. I've had many boyfriends before, and even though I'm really kind of self conscious I know I could probably get any guy I wanted if I tried, except for him. Is that why I like him so much? What should I do? Does he even like me? I bring myself to tears even thinking of losing him, I'd take a bullet for him. I feel too young to feel this way, but I really truly mean it. I have no idea what to do....and ALL the girls in the school like him, even my friends.
Well even though you seem pretty young, you can't help the way you feel but if I were you I would back off a little bit. Sometimes people don't know what they have until its gone or taken from them in some way. You may not be in love either. Sometimes we mistake feeling we have for someone as love and that may not be the case but when you step back a little it will give you some time to reflect as well and see how you really feel and if you still feel the same way then you have two options.. Tell him how you feel and wait until he wants to pursue a relationship with you or find some way to get over him..
talk to him about it
first off: you are never to young to fall in love. period. i dont care what anyone says, just remember that. ok, so hes a guy, of course he likes you! and hes giving all of the signs that he does. but right now he might not be ready to admit it. he is a boy not sure of his feelings, give it a year, date some cute guys and see how he acts. if he gets jealous then he is all for you and just doesnt want you to no. dont stress, ok? everything will work out the way it should in the long run. trust me, talk to me if ya need anything else! gl!
tell him how you feel about him...
Didn't you say your in year 8?....
Things don't always go how you want them to. you cant make somebody like you.