Question: I dont know whats going on, im really upset?
I don't know whats going on.. me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex for 2 1/2 years.. and im still not pregnant..i want to be and its making me sad. I went to my GYNO and he said everything was ok...but how can they see my inside?? how does he know every things okay ???? im so scared. i was 17 when i seen my GYNO and im going to be 18 in less than a month. i want a baby with my boyfriend, i no he'd be great and so would i.. i just don't know who to talk to...what to do or anything..its driving me crazy...i drink lots of water. i exercise on a daily basis, i stopped eating fast food, i take one a day women vitamins..Im mature for my age so nobody needs to tell me im too young..& my man is black..and idk if he has signs of sycle cell which could cause him to be sterile.... idk im really sad, because i cant even talk to him about it or i cry.... i see all these crack heads and people who don't need more kids or people who cant take care of the one they have getting pregnant and having baby's...why not ME?
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the first answerer took the same exact words i was going to say, maybe its a sign from god..... im the same age as you..... im the 2nd of 8 children and even i know, a kid our age has no right to have a baby......
Okay, lets pretend it's NOT a sign from God...
Get your boyfriend tested to see if he's fertile. That's probably the problem. If your fine, and you exercise and eat well, he probalby cant have children. =(
I really hope it all works out!! Good luck!
If your doctor cant help theres not a lot we can do :\
Just dont give up...Some people it really does just take a long time, It sounds like your doing everything you can, and once you want a baby and cant have one everyone around you seems to be pregnant or have a baby, just keep trying and don't give up, however maybe you should just relax a bit and let nature take its course when it does.
maybe it's a sign from God
that you're not ready to have a baby yet.
so he's doing this to try and make you think about it and decide you're really not ready for a baby.
BUT if your gyno says you're not sterile, it may be your boyfriend. have him get checked out by the doctor.