Question: How do I make premarital sex fair for my boyfriend and I?
My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year, and he said recently he wants to stop having sex because he's Christian and believes sex before marriage is wrong. This is hard for me because I'm Atheist and I don't see anything wrong with it. How can this situation be made fair?
He already commited the sin, why not keep going? LOL
Seriously though, you can't bend his religious beliefs, that would not be fair to him.
I think down the road you might want to consider joining his religion or finding someone else, as it is going to create more problems later in your relationship.
You need to find some way to deal with his decision. If you honestly don't think you can wait to have sex with him until you're married, then I would suggest seriously thinking about ending the relationship.
Try the website below, it shows you the pro-premarital sex stuff in the Bible that your church will never tell you about.
If youve already had sex....its doesnt make sense to stop....hes already "sinned" in his own opinion...its not like the sin goes away just cause he decided to stop doing it. If he truly believed sex before marriage was worng he wouldnt have done it in the first place
Either marry him so you can have sex.
Buy a dildo..sexy lingerie, some nice sexy heels and masterbate in front of him .. He's a man and is weak.. he'll give in.
is this person 4 real he has already sinned i went out with a guy like that once and he started on like that and so i just finished it cause he wasnt marriage material
so u were having sex before and now he has decided he cant because of religion, he's a cock, but because his religion doesnt allow intercourse doesnt mean u can enjoy other acts ;)
"He wants to stop having sex" after he's already had it... It sounds like he is either feeling guilty about sex in general, maybe from his parents or thinking about it too much himself. Or, he is trying to tell you something.
I would talk to him about it, but take him out of your place/ his place, like a park or someplace for a picnic. Ask him a series of non judgmental questions but direct questions because you deserve the right to know. I would also point out to him that he hasnt taken your feelings into consideration... "If I announced the same thing to you, how would you react?"
Typical of any religious person, he's a hypocrite. I'm not sure if Christians are like Catholics in the sence that once they have confessed the sin it essentially does "go away"; but if he is religious enough to pull this on you after a year and you are an Atheist good luck with the rest of your relationship. I honestly believe Atheists cannot marry religous people of any type. Conflict of interest.
YOUR A SPAWN OF SATAN. TAKE THIS HOLY WATER AND BE CLEANSED BEFORE THE RAPTURE.
Is your boyfriend 12? Ok, physically older than 18, but with a mental age of 12?
In theory, I could admit that the sex before marriage thing is viable. In practice the permanent erections, constant horniness, the permanent feeling of loneyness etc. Why would anyone want to abstain and go out with a woman is beyond me.
He clearly doesn't know the disadvantage of making yourself single for no good reason. In 10 years, he'll either be married to the one of his dreams (fat chance) or he'll be shagging anything that moves out of desperation and unhappiness.
make him really horny so that he cant resist having sex with u weneva u messing around