Question: Feeling homesick all the time?
I am in highschool and I am definetely not a woos or anything but I get homesick really easily. Whenever I go to sleepovers I will be fine until everyone else goes to sleep and I am left awake and then I get really homesick. I have tried to get to sleep quickly but i can't.
And even when friends sleepover at my house i get the same homesick Feeling but i dont know why since i am at my own house. Please help!
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you sound just like my son and he is 17 years of age. I dont think its home sick your feeling as you get the same feeling when you have sleep overs at your home, i believe through my sons feeling that its maybe a sence of insecurity, you need to have your home comforts around you and this may also lead to wanting your parents around you, and hey there is nothing wrong with that. Having some one sleeping at your home is maybe exciting but then they become to invade your privacy and your personal things, you sound as though you need to have a good talk with some one who understands how your feeling without accusing you of being a woos or a mummys boy. It is a horrible feeling for a young person to go through especially alone. Try not to worry too much at nights when this feeling is more over whelming for you. If your still a young adult this could also be hormones / changes in your body playing with your emotions also.
I wish you luck my dear you sound like a very upset young adult.
I was a little thrown off by the last part, when you said you felt homesick in your own home, perhaps its not homesickness but a discomfort from the lack of privacy. The way you describe it seems to only occur at night. I don’t think its a huge problem, try to perhaps sleep in a different room.