Question: Does witchcraft-love spells, etc. work when its for a good reason?
my boyfriend packed his things an left me a few hours ago. im a little familiar with witchcraft an that sort. but not so much. i need advice from anyone who can help me with this. ill try to explain and make it as short as i can. PLEASE take the time to read ALL of my question. i really need some help from people who know what their talking about...
OK, i was with my ex for four years. i THOUGHT i was inlove an i THOUGHT he was.
we split up so i decided i wanted him back and i tried a love spell.
it was my first spell of any kind and im not sure what it was exactly.
my book said to take many different herbs and things that had to do with us and a picture of us and a put them in a small red drawstring bag along with a red wax candle shaped heart i melted myself with some of his hair and some of mind dried inside the heart.
then rub some kind of oil on it, let the candles burn out by themselves...
i pined it to the inside of my bra near my heart
blah blah blah, etc. etc. etc.
you all know the rest...
it worked for a month or so then stopped. so i tried a "sweet bottle"
took a jar with water Sugar and honey and a Popsicle stick with our full names on it
and would shake it up everynight before bed while i said
"sweet sweet thoughts of me, you will think constantly" an pictured him an i.
that worked for a while then stopped.
we finally broke up an never spoke again.
it hurt me so bad and i know it only hurt so bad because it came back times3.
a lady who helped me find my book warned me that if it wasn't True love it would backfire but i didn't listen.
SO YOU LIVE AN LEARN...
now i found the man of my dreams. he treats me like gold an bends over backwards to make me happy an show me how much i mean to him.
im bipolar so i take med. for my anger issues.
i get mad and pick fights with him over stupid things an then blame it on my bipolar disorder but Truly i could stop treating him bad if i tried. he's warned me he would leave me but i didn't listen
LISTENING TO OTHERS SEEMS TO BE MY PROBLEM. haha
well after tonight's argument he packed his things and left me. i could see it on his face that he didint want to go. but he also didn't want to put up with my attitude anymore.
he said he loves me more then anything.
when i asked if he was inlove with me he said no.
he said he was inlove with he person i use to be before i started letting my anger get the bast of me.
he said he was inlove with that person.
and always will be.
i begged him not to go but he said i needed to change.
and i agree!
if i want to be with him i need to treat him with the same respect that he has for me.
i dont know why i didnt realize my actions before but i never thought he would actually leave me.
when i seen him pack his things and drive away it was my wake up call
i know ive got to change and i would do anything for this man.
i Truly believe he is my soul mate an i am his.
he constantly says how happy and lucky he is...
except for when i get mad...
anyother time we are the perfect couple.
we can talk about ANYTHING
we understand eachother an "click" the way a couple is suppose to.
so my question is... can anyone help me??
he is a very hardheaded person an once he decides something there is no changing his mind.
he would sit alone the rest of his life then give in and give me yet ANOTHER last chance.
im not doing this Just for me im doing it for us. i honestly believe that he would be 100% happier with me then for us to stay broken up. i know that he loves me. and im willing to bite my tongue for every little thing he does just to keep us from fighting from now on is someone could just please help me win him back. and help me get him back home with me when i know we both want him to be.
i understand that if its not true love that it will come back times3. but its different this time then with the other guy. before i only THOUGHT we were inlove.(the other guy)
but this time there is no doubt in my mind that we are Truly inlove and im willing to do anything to be the woman i use to be, the woman he wants me to be, and the woman he deserves!
so again... please help me get him back. help me get my last chance to prove i can be that person. and that i will be!
Do not do any thing that would effect the will of another! so love spells are out!
If it works then it is meant to be.
I respect your sincerity, and if we could sit down and talk I suspect we would at least agree that each of us has a spiritual nature within us that yearns for something greater than ourselves. Centuries ago, a great philosopher called this a "God-shaped vacuum" we each have within us.
But where did this vacuum in our hearts come from? The Bible says that God put it there—and the reason He did was so that we would seek Him and come to know Him in a personal way. You and I have a soul that yearns for God; as the Bible says, God "has also set eternity in the hearts of men" (Ecclesiastes 3:11).
But the Bible tells us something else very important. It tells us there is a barrier between us and God—a barrier we cannot overcome on our own. The reason is because this barrier that separates us from God was caused by our sin. Our greatest need is to have our sins forgiven, and this is something no amount of meditation or similar practice can overcome.
Only God can erase this barrier—and this is why Jesus Christ came into the world. He was God in human flesh, sent from heaven to save us from our sins. Don't be deceived by paths that promise to unite you with God but don't deal with your sins. Instead, by faith commit your life to Jesus Christ and trust Him alone for your salvation. Only then will you discover the joy and peace you are seeking.
I answered the other question you asked very similar to this. Read that answer and think about it, Blessed Be, Icefire
The answer is YES! If you use a spell or you have a spell done for you there is nothing wrong with that as long is it is for a good reason. I have a site that has a lot of great info on love spells and other real spells. This is a great resource learn more www.Guaranteed-Spells.com
It seems to me that your real problem is solving your anger issues. I recommend you see a therapist; therapy helped me enormously. I also read self-help books, a good self-help is The Work of Byron Katie: http://www.thework.com/index.php
I do believe in witchcraft & magick, but the magick I practice focuses more on spiritual development than on manipulation. I don't think that all love spells are bad, but clearly, if you want this man, you have to listen to what he says - that you have to learn how to handle your anger more constructively.
its selfish to put a spell on someone. and once you get him to like you, wouldnt you feel guilty and ashamed that he doesnt like you for who you are, but because of a spell you cast on him. If you truly love him, then you would let be be with the person he loves.
Well basically, as was said, you need to change you're attitude. If you truly love this guy, you need to change how you have been acting around him. Before you change or fix anything, however, you need to figure out what the problem is. Find out what made you start acting different with him after you had been with him for awhile. He said he was in love with the person you use to be, so, you must find the person you use to be.
As for Love Spells, they rarely work out well from what i hear. And Love Spells are Wrong to use, because you are taking away someones choice and free will.
Perhaps you can look for a spell for Second Chances and Forgiveness?? Possibly that may work.
But before you perform a Second Chance spell, you need to make sure you are back to your old self, else should he return, he may be driven away once again by your anger.
I wish you good luck with your spells and your life!
100% agree with fletcher....love spells are out
goes against the will of another
its considered black magic
wiccans understand thew cycle of life
and how important this cycle is to our own lives
let him go
((never manipulate the will of another))
you dont want him that way
you can use magic on yourself
you can use it to help you become the woman youre supposed to be
to help yourself find your rightful path
to help your path unfold easily
I'm going to be harsh here - you don't want to hear it but I'm sayin' it anyway, What on EARTH does that poor man have to do to convince you he loves YOU but not your temper eh? what do you want? blood?
He is showing you in the absolute only way he can that you have hurt him, he has tried talking to you, he's tried reasoning with you, he's tried open and honest discussion and now - out of sheer desperation he's trying to cut himself off from the pain you are causing him.
You say you have the power to stop this, you say you can 'turn a blind eye' to every little thing he does - so when you gonna start?
As an experienced wiccan I would say do NOT go anywhere near spellwork, on a personal level you are nowhere near balancd enough in your own psyche to deal with it - you've already proved once how badly you can cock things up by using spellwork when you were advised not to - don't make the mistake again. Spellwork should NEVER be used as a first choice but always - ALWAYS a last resort when all other paths have failed.
If I was you I'd get yourself down to a doctors and or whatever counselling system you SHOULD be in and really really REALLY put your mind into changing yourself. The problem is not him, it is you, you're bent on a path of self destruction that you need help getting out of, and that help ain't magical honey, it's going to be good old fashioned hard graft with no outside help. In short you need to heal, you need to deal with this anger and balance your meds for the bipolar, you need to take control of your own life before you ever start meddling with someone elses. You need to start this as soon as possible.
Maybe if you can prove to this poor injured guy that you are willing to try and change and deal with your issues he may - MAY come back, but personally I wouldn't bank on it. Just let the guy go as he needs to heal too - you've hurt him and that's a tough thing for a guy to admit. Let him go lick his wounds and worry about yourself for now.
Healing has to come from you, remember the line of the Rede? That which thou seekest you find it not within, you wilt NEVER find it without.
I wouldn't suggest a love spell for this one. Sounds like he already loves you. What you need is a spell to help you control your temper. It won't replace any medication you are taking but it can help. If you'd like help finding a spell e-mail me at Naty_Help@yahoo.com and feel free to browse my articles on the subject of magic at:
no spells are not real they will only confuse you about life. go talk to that boy and be honest with yourself and him. if not you will be chasing spell forever and never find what you really want.
tricks and lies will always backfire. (If they are real then tricks spells are from the devil _who wants everyone to be miserable!!!)
honesty and truth and some happiness is from the good side. (GOD)
but if you want to practice spells and tricks well you will be the one tricked and alone!!
Yes there is a spell that can make boys (or girls) fall in love with you you just have to look at a picture of them( look the picture deep in the eyes) and say ''Toidi a mi'' backwards three times
Love potions are a myth. In real life a "love" potion is nothing more than a common aphrodisiac. It doesn't make somebody fall in love, it sexually arouses them.
Most things sold as love potions in wiken stores are fake. They're just colored/flavored water.
Love spells are out of the question, regardless of reason.
If i force an ex to have sex with me, because "she used to like it"... isn't it still rape?
Same deal here.
Leave the magic alone on this one. If you want him back, stop treating him like sh*t, and keep it that way.